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Practical, research-based learning you can use straight away, no matter where your relationship is today.

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Featured course

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

For any couple who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.

This course is based on the New York Times Best Seller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M Gottman Ph.D., and Nan Silver. Founded on over forty years of research into what makes relationships succeed or fail, this course will revolutionise the way you understand, repair and strengthen your relationship.

If you are engaged, wanting to enhance your relationship/marriage or feel you need some extra input at this time, this course is for you.

Teaching takes place in a private setting, the groups are small and run over two Saturdays or eight weekday evenings. There is no personal problem sharing in the class.

Please feel free to email me at info@talk2tamsin.co.nz with any further questions, dates and times. We look forward to welcoming you and your partner on a journey that will benefit and enhance your relationship.

Why take this course

What you'll gain together

Better communication

Learn how to talk and truly listen, turning conflict into understanding and connection.

Deeper friendship

Rekindle the fondness, admiration and everyday closeness that keep love alive.

Practical tools

Walk away with proven, easy-to-use strategies for handling conflict and life's challenges.

Course outcomes

By the end of the weekend, you'll be able to…

Each principle builds on the last, giving you a complete, practical toolkit for a stronger relationship.

  • Build detailed "love maps" of each other's inner world
  • Nurture fondness, admiration and gratitude
  • Turn toward each other instead of away
  • Manage conflict with respect and repair
  • Solve solvable problems and soothe gridlock
  • Create shared meaning, rituals and dreams
Course testimonials

What couples say

★★★★★

Just thinking of the impact you and Robert have had on our marriage and family because we changed the dynamic of our whole house. Thank you!

KPK & PMarried couple
★★★★★

This course was the best thing we could have done, coming up to our wedding and giving us important strategies to help solve problems in years to come. Thank you so much!

TNT & NEngaged couple
★★★★★

It feel this course was great timing for where we are in our relationship and feel newly blessed we could be part of it. Thank you for your time, skills, hospitality and having us in your lovely home.

HDH & DRecently married